Daughter-In-Law Can't Stop Mother-In-Law From Attending Children's Doctor Appointments

The Resilient Woman

The resilient woman managed everything on her own, balancing the demands of raising her two children with steadfast resolve. Her seven-year-old son, full of energy and intelligence, and her newborn daughter, who brought both delight and new obstacles, kept her on her toes.

Her world turned chaotic when the flu struck both children, plunging her into a storm of anxiety and sleepless nights. It was during this challenging time that she discovered who truly stood by her side.

The Morning Sun

Rita Driedson, 39, sat at the kitchen table, the morning sun gently illuminating her half-eaten toast. Adjusting to their new home in Green Oaks, San Francisco, was still a challenge for her.

As she sipped her coffee, she struggled to ignore the anxious feeling in her stomach. Her seven-year-old son, Jarred, and her newborn baby, Tina, were both suffering from the flu. Their persistent coughs and feverish bodies had robbed her of sleep all night. Despite her efforts with home remedies, their condition showed no improvement.

His Mothers Nightgown

Jarred pulled at his mother’s nightgown, his voice barely above a whisper. "Mom, I don't feel good," he said from his spot on the living room couch. Seeing her normally lively son so listless made Rita’s heart ache.

"Don't worry, honey. We'll visit the doctor soon," she comforted, gently pushing a damp strand of hair from his forehead. At that moment, the phone rang. Rita answered, recognizing her mother-in-law Sandra’s number. Sandra’s concern for her grandchildren was evident in her voice.

Barely Acknowledged

Sandra, with her usual aloofness, barely acknowledged her daughter-in-law. "Rita, how are the children doing?" she asked, her tone laced with an almost too-genuine concern.

"They're not doing well, Sandra. I'm just about to take them to the doctor," Rita said, her weariness evident. Without waiting for a response, Sandra declared, "I’m coming with you. I’ll be there in ten minutes." Rita, too drained to protest, simply nodded in resignation.

Overwhelming

Rita sighed as she prepared for Sandra’s visit, knowing her help could be both overwhelming and invaluable. She wrapped Tina snugly in a blanket and helped Jarred into his coat, her movements hurried but careful. By the time Sandra arrived, Rita had successfully loaded the kids into the car.

Sandra, tall and stern, gave a nod of approval upon seeing the kids. Rita, feeling self-conscious about her parenting, felt a pang of judgment. "Let’s get going," Sandra said decisively as she settled into the passenger seat, ready to begin their outing.

Filled With Unease

The drive to the doctor’s office was filled with unease. Jarred's persistent coughs broke the silence, while Tina’s soft whimpers from her car seat added to the tension.

Sandra's frequent glances at Rita through the rearview mirror made her feel intensely scrutinized. It was clear that Sandra held Richard, her son, in high regard, and her devotion to him meant she wasn’t about to let Rita keep her away.

Her Mother-in-law

Her mother-in-law had a knack for turning every situation into a dramatic ordeal. "Do you think it’s just the flu, or could it be something more serious?" Sandra's voice was laced with worry.

"I’m hoping it's just the flu," Rita said, striving to sound reassuring. "The doctor will be able to tell us for sure." She quickened her pace to catch the green light, eager to reach the hospital and escape the tension of the car ride with her mother-in-law.

The Doctors Office

At the doctor's office, Jarred and Tina were swiftly brought into an examination room where Dr. Mason, a compassionate middle-aged physician, began his assessment. He first examined Jarred, checking his lungs and taking his temperature. 

"It seems like the flu, but I'll run some tests to confirm," Dr. Mason noted, making entries on his clipboard. He assured that Tina would undergo the same process. Meanwhile, Sandra, brimming with concern, bombarded the doctor with questions about the baby’s well-being. Rita, caught off guard, realized she should have been more proactive in addressing the situation.

Pacing

Sandra paced anxiously around the small room, her anxiety evident as she waited for the test results. Rita, meanwhile, sat quietly with Tina nestled in her lap, softly humming to provide some comfort.

"Do you think they'll be alright?" Sandra asked again, her gaze fixed on the window. It was the seventh time she had voiced her concern. "They will be," Rita replied with determination, though she was trying to reassure herself as much as Sandra. She couldn't shake the feeling that the children's illness was somehow her fault.

The Test Results

The test results confirmed the flu diagnosis, which brought relief to everyone involved. Dr. Mason prescribed medication and provided detailed instructions for managing the children's care at home.

Sandra expressed her gratitude to the doctor with a fervent handshake that caught Rita’s attention. As Rita prepared to leave with her children, she saw Sandra conversing with Dr. Mason quietly in a corner. When their eyes met, Sandra and the doctor quickly parted ways.

Not Right At All

On the drive back, Sandra was unusually quiet, her gaze focused out the window. Rita glanced at her, trying to read her thoughts, but Sandra's face was inscrutable. At home, Sandra helped Rita get the children settled in. She made soup, fluffed pillows, and even read to Jarred from his favorite book.

Rita was grateful but also a bit uneasy. Sandra's sudden intensity was out of character. But she had no clue what she was up to.

Including Her

As evening fell, Rita put Tina to bed and checked on Jarred, who had finally fallen into a restless sleep. She found Sandra in the kitchen, cleaning up. "Sandra, could you watch Jarred while I put Tina to bed?" Rita asked her mother-in-law that evening.

Her mother asked if she could put Tina down instead, but Rita declined, saying she was irritable and didn’t want anybody else. “Jarred is much easier,” she said. Sandra looked disappointed.

On Her Own

The concerned daughter-in-law tried to be polite to her mother-in-law. "Thank you for your help today, Sandra," Rita said, leaning against the counter. Sandra nodded; her eyes sharp with concern. "Of course, dear. We need to keep a close eye on them."

Rita went on to describe how hard it was taking care of the kids while Richard was away. “It’s nice to have an extra set of hands around,” she smiled at her.

It’s My Duty

Sandra turned to her, a strange look in her eyes. "They're my grandchildren, Rita. I’d do anything for them." Rita nodded, feeling a chill. "I know. I appreciate it." She tried to change the subject and spoke about what to cook for the kids in the morning.

Sandra's eyes softened, but there was something else there, something Rita couldn't quite place. " She didn’t know then that her mother-in-law was up to something.

No Change

Rita appreciated Sandra’s help, but as the days turned into weeks and the children’s flu symptoms persisted, she began to notice something unusual. Sandra insisted on accompanying them to every doctor’s appointment, a habit that seemed overly cautious, even for her. She always talked more than she should.

Their doctor was also getting uncomfortable with her mother-in-law always being present. She seemed to be overly observant, and he didn’t like it anymore.

Her Son Sees

The exhausted mother was too tired to ask her mother-in-law questions and just let her be. But the nagging feeling never left her, especially when Jarred started noticing it too. "Mom, why does Grandma always come with us?" Jarred asked innocently as they drove to the clinic one rainy afternoon.

Rita forced a smile. "She just wants to make sure you and Tina get better soon, sweetheart." But she knew that her mother-in-law was up to no good.

What’s Wrong

The strong woman tried to take care of her children and deal with her mother-in-law. But inside, her unease grew.  During their third visit to Dr. Mason, Rita noticed Sandra whispering with the doctor in the hallway, their conversation hushed but intense.

When she approached them, they quickly fell silent, their expressions masked with polite smiles. The Doctor looked somewhat flustered. What were they talking about that they didn’t want her to hear?

Have To Ask

The curious mother wasn’t going to let it slide. "Dr. Mason, is everything alright?" Rita inquired, trying to keep her tone casual. "Yes, of course, Mrs. Driedson," Dr. Mason replied, a hint of hesitation in his voice. "Just discussing the best course of treatment for Jarred and Tina."

Sandra interjected, "I’m just so worried about the kids, Rita. It’s important to cover all bases." Rita nodded, but suspicion gnawed at her. Sandra seemed annoyed that Rita had interrupted their conversation, but Rita wanted answers.

Not Your Business

That night, after putting the children to bed, she confronted Sandra in the kitchen. She found her reading a magazine in the living room. She tried to make some small talk with her, then got straight to the point. "Sandra, I appreciate your concern, but why do you feel the need to speak to Dr. Mason alone?"

Sandra’s face turned stony. "I’m only doing what’s best for the children." She gave Rita an excuse that Doctors of today didn’t do their jobs properly.

It’s Not Fair

Rita’s frustration bubbled over. "But why without me? What aren’t you telling me?" She was starting to get annoyed. Sandra avoided her gaze. "You wouldn’t understand, Rita." She got up and walked away to the kitchen.

Rita followed her and pretended to make a cup of tea. She tried to question her some more, but she gave an excuse that she was tired and went up to the guest bedroom.

Hiding Things

The cryptic response only heightened Rita’s anxiety. She couldn’t shake the feeling that something sinister lurked behind Sandra’s actions.  Over the next few weeks, Sandra’s behavior grew increasingly erratic. She wanted to bathe them, dress them, and even feed them.

She would insist on taking the children’s temperatures multiple times a day and constantly fret over minor symptoms. Rita was getting annoyed with her fake attempts at helping, she was making her look bad.

A Clue

That evening Sandra decided to try one last time to find out what her mother-in-law was up to. She had to check her room. She sneaked into the guest bedroom when she was in the bathroom. She didn’t have much time to quickly go through her things.

She opened the dresser and even her handbag but she didn’t find anything strange. Sandra eyed the room one more time and saw the hospital's brochure on her nightstand. Why did she need the hospital's number?

Ask The Doc

Determined to get to the bottom of it, Rita decided to visit Dr. Mason alone the following week. Sandra had her own dental appointment that day and couldn’t accompany her.  The clever mother knew this and she made an appointment under the pretense of discussing Tina’s vaccination schedule.

Sandra was disappointed that she couldn’t accompany her this time, but her transport arrangements had already been made. As she sat in the waiting room, her heart pounded with nervous anticipation.

Doctor-Patient Confidentiality

Finally, she saw the doctor approaching her. Dr. Mason greeted her warmly. "Mrs. Driedson, what brings you here today?" Rita took a deep breath. "I need to know what’s going on with Sandra. She’s been acting strangely, and I know you two have been talking behind my back."

At first, the doctor didn’t want to talk but Rita insisted. Dr. Mason’s expression darkened. "Rita, Sandra has been... worried about your capability to care for the children."

Making Problems

The stressed mother couldn’t believe her ears. Rita’s eyes widened in shock. "What do you mean?" Dr Mason pulled her aside, "She’s been expressing concerns that you’re overwhelmed and might not be able to manage their health properly."

The doctor went on to say that it was his duty to listen to any information pertaining to the children. But he understood why Rita was so upset, she was just being nosy.

None Of Her Business

Rita felt a wave of anger and betrayal. "That’s ridiculous! I’ve been doing everything I can!" She explained her husband’s absence to him. 

It was clear that the doctor didn’t want to get involved in their personal problems. Dr. Mason sighed. "She’s your mother-in-law. She believes she’s acting in the children’s best interest." Rita’s mind raced. Sandra’s overbearing presence, the secret conversations, the constant monitoring—it all made sense now. But why?

Her Own Plan

A few days later, Rita checked in with her mother-in-law. “Are you sure you don’t mind staying home today?” Rita had asked Sandra earlier that morning, hoping to have some time alone with the kids.

“Nonsense, dear. You need all the help you can get,” Sandra replied with a tight smile, her eyes cold and scrutinizing. But she had every intention of being present at her grandchild’s checkup. Rita just didn’t know it yet.

By Herself

Rita decided to get a new doctor. She sat in the small pediatrician’s office, bouncing baby Tina gently on her knee while seven-year-old Jarred fidgeted beside her.  Jarred's cheeks were flushed with fever, and Tina's cries had a weak, congested sound that broke Rita’s heart.

This was their second doctor in three months, and Rita was exhausted. Her mother-in-law, Sandra, insisted on coming along each time, making the entire ordeal even more stressful. Sandra had taken a cab to the hospital on her own. Rita sighed and nodded, too tired to argue.

Watching Her

As they sat in the waiting room, Sandra kept casting glances at Tina, her expression unreadable. Rita’s unease grew with each passing minute. 

Dr. Raj finally called them in. He examined Jarred first, then Tina, his brow furrowed with concern. “It’s the flu,” he confirmed, “but they’re both going to be fine. Just make sure they stay hydrated and rest.” The second doctor confirmed the same, her children had a bad case of Influenza.

The Second Opinion

Rita thanked him, but Sandra interjected, “Doctor, may I have a word with you in private?” Rita gave her a hard stare as she tugged the doctor's sleeve. Dr. Raj glanced at Rita, who shrugged and then nodded. “Of course, Mrs. Driedson.” Rita waited outside with the kids, her anxiety mounting. What could Sandra possibly need to discuss in private?

After several minutes, Sandra emerged, her face stern and unsmiling. “Everything alright?” Rita asked. “Just some routine questions, dear. Nothing to worry about,” Sandra said, brushing past her. Rita’s mind raced. What could Sandra be up to? The thought nagged at her, making sleep elusive.

He Came Back

Over the next few weeks, Richard had returned home but Sandra’s insistence on accompanying them to the doctor’s office continued. Each time, she asked to speak with Dr. Raj privately.  

It was the second time she had done this. Rita’s suspicion grew. Finally, she couldn’t take it anymore. After their next appointment, once Sandra had left the room, she turned to Dr. Raj. “Doctor, I need to know what my mother-in-law is talking to you about,” Rita said, her voice trembling with frustration. But she wasn’t ready for the answer. 

What She Did

Dr. Raj hesitated, glancing at the door. “Mrs. Driedson, I’m not supposed to discuss other patients’ inquiries…” “Please,” Rita implored, “I’m their mother. I deserve to know.” Dr. Raj sighed and rubbed his temples. “Alright. Sandra asked me to perform a private blood test on Tina and keep the results confidential.”

Rita’s eyes widened in shock. “What? Why?” “She… she believes that Tina might not be your husband’s child,” Dr. Raj said gently. She finally knew what her mother-in-law was doing all this time.

Don’t Get Involved

"I’m sorry, Rita," Dr. Raj said softly. "I thought it best to comply for the sake of keeping peace, but I understand now that it was a mistake." Rita clenched her fists, feeling a surge of determination. "This is a violation of my privacy and trust. I’m going to sue you for this, Dr. Raj."

Dr. Raj's face fell, the weight of the situation pressing down on him. "I understand. Please, allow me to explain everything to Richard. I’m sure we can resolve this without legal action."

Unprofessional Behavior

Rita shook her head, her resolve unwavering. "No, Dr. Raj. This has gone too far." She struggled to hold back her tears. She stormed out of the office, grabbing her phone to text Richard. "We need to talk. Your mother crossed a line," she typed furiously.

Rita felt as if the ground had shifted beneath her feet. She managed to nod and thank Dr. Raj before stumbling out of the office, her mind a whirlwind of emotions. How could Sandra suspect such a thing? Tina was Richard’s child; she had no doubt about that.

Talking To Richard

That evening, after the kids were in bed, Rita sat down with Richard. “We need to talk,” she said, her voice shaking. “What’s wrong?” Richard asked, concern etching lines into his forehead. 

“It’s your mother. She’s been asking Dr. Raj to do secret blood tests on Tina. She thinks Tina isn’t yours,” Rita said, her voice breaking.  Richard’s face turned ashen. “What? That’s ridiculous! How could she even think that?” “I don’t know, but you need to talk to her. This can’t continue,” Rita said firmly.

The Confrontation

The next day, Richard confronted his mother. “Mom, I know what you’ve been doing behind our backs,” he said, his voice cold and hard. Sandra’s eyes widened in surprise. “What do you mean, Richard?” 

“Rita told me about the blood tests. How could you do that to us? To Tina?” Richard demanded. Sandra’s face twisted in anger. “I had to know, Richard! For the family’s sake. Rita’s always been… questionable.” “That’s enough!” Richard shouted; his fists clenched. “Tina is my daughter, and Rita is my wife. You’ve crossed a line.”

I Don’t Trust Her

Sandra glared at him; her expression unyielding. “I’m just looking out for you, Richard. Can’t you see that?” “No, what you’re doing is hurting our family,” Richard said, his voice low and dangerous. “You’re not welcome in our home until you apologize to Rita and promise to stop this nonsense.”

Sandra’s face hardened, but she didn’t respond. She turned and walked out, leaving Richard standing there, seething with anger. But he had only made things worse for them.

A Curious Husband

Back at home, Richard hugged Rita tightly. “I’m so sorry. I had no idea she would do something like this.” Rita nodded, tears streaming down her face. “I just want us to be a family. Without all this suspicion and drama.”

“We will be,” Richard promised. “From now on, it’s just us and the kids. No more interference.” But deep inside, his mother had hit a nerve and had him questioning his wife’s fidelity.

A Tough Decision

One evening, as the children slept soundly, Richard and Rita sat at the kitchen table, the weight of the situation heavy between them. Richard hadn’t spoken to his mother in days. He was avoiding her. "Do you really want to go through with this lawsuit?" Richard asked quietly.

"Yes," Rita replied without hesitation. "Dr. Raj violated our trust. He needs to be held accountable." Sandra had made up her mind, and nothing was going to stop her.

Our Life

The worried husband didn’t approve of what his mother did, but he didn’t want anything bad to happen to her. "And my mother?" Richard asked, his voice barely above a whisper. Rita sighed, reaching for his hand. "She needs to understand that she can’t control our lives. If she can’t accept that, then she needs to stay away."

Richard nodded, squeezing her hand. "I’m with you, Rita. We’ll get through this together." But he was secretly annoyed that she was the cause of the problem with his mum.

Just Them

In the days that followed, Rita felt a weight lift from her shoulders. She was glad to have her husband home, helping out and by her side. Sandra’s absence, while initially unsettling, brought a sense of peace to their home. It felt like their own little family of four again.

Jarred and Tina slowly recovered from the flu, and life began to return to normal. But they weren’t out of the woods just yet.

She Is Family

One evening, as they sat together in the living room, Richard turned to Rita. “I think we need to have a serious talk with Mom. She needs to understand how much she’s hurt us.” The caring wife knew that her husband was going through a hard time. Rita nodded. “But how do we do that? She’s so stubborn.”

“We’ll take it one step at a time,” Richard said. “But we need to make her see that what she did was wrong. For our family’s sake.” But would his mother admit her faults?

One More Time

Weeks turned into months, and Sandra eventually reached out, asking to speak with them. She needed some time to think and reflect. Richard and Rita agreed but on their terms. They met in a neutral location, a quiet park where the kids could play while they talked.

When they saw her, Jarred ran to hug her, he had forgotten all about their weird ordeal at the doctor. This made Rita change her mind about taking legal action.

A Sorry Granny

Sandra looked frail and tired as she approached them. “I’m sorry,” she said quietly. “I shouldn’t have doubted you, Rita. I was wrong.” Rita took a deep breath, feeling a mix of relief and lingering hurt. “Thank you for saying that, Sandra. But trust needs to be rebuilt. It won’t happen overnight.”

Sandra nodded, tears in her eyes. “I understand. I just want to be a part of my grandchildren’s lives.” She knew that she had a long way to go before being a part of the family again.

Back Together Again

Richard put a hand on his mother’s shoulder. “We want that too, Mom. But you need to respect us and our decisions as parents.” “I will,” Sandra promised. “I’ll do whatever it takes to make things right,” Rita assured her that they decided not to go through with the lawsuit.

As they sat together, watching Jarred and Tina play, Rita felt a glimmer of hope. It would be a long road to healing, but for the first time in months, she believed they could find their way back to being a family.